Georgies
810 5th Avenue
812 fifth avenue, (http://www.georgiesbar.com) neighborhood bar. karaoke, live music, piano bar.
Watermark
Ocean Avenue
High class lounge with outdoor bar overlooking ocean. Inside is has a cozy fireplace.
Paradise Nightclub
101 asbury avenue, (http://www.paradisenj.com). - dance club with outdoor pool, sundeck, piano bar, and lobby lounge. big gay community, but "straight" people can come too.